fix(lsp): detect, evict, and respawn crashed language servers

A crashed language server stayed cached with ready==true: readLoop exited and
drained in-flight calls but never cleared the running flag, and GetServer keyed
reuse on ready alone. Every subsequent hover/definition/references then passed
the running guard, wrote to a dead stdin, and blocked the full request timeout —
permanently, since active use kept the server off the idle reaper. A single
crash wedged that language at ~10s/call with no self-heal.

- readLoop now flips running=false on exit, so Call fails fast instead of hanging.
- GetServer treats ready && client.IsRunning() as the liveness condition; a stale
  entry is evicted (closed async — its process has already exited) and a fresh
  server is spawned in its place.
- drainPending's send is now non-blocking, matching the dispatch path, so a
  duplicate-id race can't deadlock it under c.mu.

Test (proven to fail without the fix): a client whose process exits is marked
not-running and its next Call fails fast rather than blocking.

internal/lsp/client_test.go

@@ -1,10 +1,48 @@
 package lsp
 
 import (
+	"context"
+	"os/exec"
 	"strings"
 	"testing"
+	"time"
 )
 
+// TestClientMarksNotRunningOnProcessExit verifies crash detection: when the
+// underlying server process exits (stdout EOF), readLoop must flip the client to
+// not-running so later Calls fail fast instead of blocking until their timeout.
+func TestClientMarksNotRunningOnProcessExit(t *testing.T) {
+	cmd := exec.Command("sh", "-c", "exit 0") // exits immediately, closing stdout
+	c, err := NewClient(cmd)
+	if err != nil {
+		t.Skipf("cannot start helper process: %v", err)
+	}
+	t.Cleanup(func() { _ = c.Close() })
+
+	deadline := time.Now().Add(2 * time.Second)
+	for c.IsRunning() && time.Now().Before(deadline) {
+		time.Sleep(10 * time.Millisecond)
+	}
+	if c.IsRunning() {
+		t.Fatal("client should be marked not running after its process exits")
+	}
+
+	// A Call on the dead client must fail fast (the running guard), not hang.
+	done := make(chan error, 1)
+	go func() {
+		_, callErr := c.Call(context.Background(), "test/method", nil)
+		done <- callErr
+	}()
+	select {
+	case callErr := <-done:
+		if callErr == nil {
+			t.Error("Call on a dead client should return an error")
+		}
+	case <-time.After(2 * time.Second):
+		t.Error("Call on a dead client hung instead of failing fast")
+	}
+}
+
 // drainStderr retains a bounded tail of server stderr for diagnostics; capture
 // must keep recent bytes and never grow past StderrCaptureMax.
 func TestClientStderrCapture(t *testing.T) {