fix: plugin no longer vanishes after Claude Code updates

Root cause: plugin registered as directory source in known_marketplaces.json,
which gets wiped on CLI updates. Now registers in extraKnownMarketplaces
(settings.json) as a GitHub source — same mechanism caveman/context-mode use.

Binaries install to ~/.claude-mnemonic/bin/ instead of the Claude-managed
plugins directory. Thin wrapper scripts in the repo let the marketplace
clone find them. Nothing gets cleaned up when Claude refreshes its cache.

Also fixed along the way:
- ONNX Runtime 1.24.3 → 1.26.0 (API v25 mismatch broke all embedding tests)
- Vector client leaked on DB reinit, processQueue had a race on sessionManager
- reloadConfig called os.Exit(0) bypassing graceful shutdown
- Removed dead QueryRowWithTimeout that leaked contexts
- Added tests for graph/watcher/maintenance/update (all were at 0%)

internal/update/update.go

@@ -532,13 +532,20 @@ func (u *Updater) replaceBinaries(extractDir string) error {
 func (u *Updater) getInstallDirectories() []string {
 	dirs := []string{u.installDir}
 
-	// Also check cache directories where Claude Code looks for plugins
 	home, err := os.UserHomeDir()
 	if err != nil {
 		return dirs
 	}
 
-	// Look for cache directories under ~/.claude/plugins/cache/claude-mnemonic/claude-mnemonic/
+	// Primary stable binary location (survives Claude Code updates)
+	stableBin := filepath.Join(home, ".claude-mnemonic", "bin")
+	if stableBin != u.installDir {
+		if _, err := os.Stat(stableBin); err == nil {
+			dirs = append(dirs, stableBin)
+		}
+	}
+
+	// Also check cache directories where Claude Code looks for plugins
 	cacheBase := filepath.Join(home, ".claude/plugins/cache/claude-mnemonic/claude-mnemonic")
 	entries, err := os.ReadDir(cacheBase)
 	if err != nil {
@@ -548,7 +555,6 @@ func (u *Updater) getInstallDirectories() []string {
 	for _, entry := range entries {
 		if entry.IsDir() {
 			cacheDir := filepath.Join(cacheBase, entry.Name())
-			// Only add if it's different from installDir and contains a worker binary
 			if cacheDir != u.installDir {
 				workerPath := filepath.Join(cacheDir, "worker")
 				if _, err := os.Stat(workerPath); err == nil {