fix: plugin no longer vanishes after Claude Code updates

Root cause: plugin registered as directory source in known_marketplaces.json,
which gets wiped on CLI updates. Now registers in extraKnownMarketplaces
(settings.json) as a GitHub source — same mechanism caveman/context-mode use.

Binaries install to ~/.claude-mnemonic/bin/ instead of the Claude-managed
plugins directory. Thin wrapper scripts in the repo let the marketplace
clone find them. Nothing gets cleaned up when Claude refreshes its cache.

Also fixed along the way:
- ONNX Runtime 1.24.3 → 1.26.0 (API v25 mismatch broke all embedding tests)
- Vector client leaked on DB reinit, processQueue had a race on sessionManager
- reloadConfig called os.Exit(0) bypassing graceful shutdown
- Removed dead QueryRowWithTimeout that leaked contexts
- Added tests for graph/watcher/maintenance/update (all were at 0%)

hooks/hooks.json

@@ -0,0 +1,61 @@
+{
+  "description": "Claude Mnemonic - Persistent memory hooks for observations, prompts, and session summaries",
+  "hooks": {
+    "SessionStart": [
+      {
+        "hooks": [
+          {
+            "type": "command",
+            "command": "${CLAUDE_PLUGIN_ROOT}/hooks/session-start",
+            "timeout": 30
+          }
+        ]
+      }
+    ],
+    "UserPromptSubmit": [
+      {
+        "hooks": [
+          {
+            "type": "command",
+            "command": "${CLAUDE_PLUGIN_ROOT}/hooks/user-prompt",
+            "timeout": 10
+          }
+        ]
+      }
+    ],
+    "PostToolUse": [
+      {
+        "matcher": "*",
+        "hooks": [
+          {
+            "type": "command",
+            "command": "${CLAUDE_PLUGIN_ROOT}/hooks/post-tool-use",
+            "timeout": 10
+          }
+        ]
+      }
+    ],
+    "SubagentStop": [
+      {
+        "hooks": [
+          {
+            "type": "command",
+            "command": "${CLAUDE_PLUGIN_ROOT}/hooks/subagent-stop",
+            "timeout": 10
+          }
+        ]
+      }
+    ],
+    "Stop": [
+      {
+        "hooks": [
+          {
+            "type": "command",
+            "command": "${CLAUDE_PLUGIN_ROOT}/hooks/stop",
+            "timeout": 30
+          }
+        ]
+      }
+    ]
+  }
+}